February 14th

Here we go again .... Valentines Day

For many years I have been single, and Valentines Day has often been a day to be ignored ... but in a media driven culture it is a very hard thing to ignore such a big day.

I have been blessed to have someone to love, and who also loves me... and even though I had a great Valentines weekend ... I am still woke up alone today...But with a happiness... Valentines day is not just about celebrating your love for another, but also celebrating a love for yourself and your accomplishments...

Loving yourself and also another unconditionally is a very hard lesson to learn... it takes a lot of courage and maturity to do so... To love someone and yourself with no strings and conditions attached. But in the end you are rewarded.... with freedom ... both physical and mental.

You can learn just as much about yourself if you are single or bonded to another ....

I personally think its harder when you are in a relationship ... you have to consider your partner in all decisions and how it will effect them as well as yourself... that is a big responsibility... and it works both ways...

Its taken me a long time... But I love Valentines Day...